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Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

I always thought I was toooooo honest & on the face...for a long time I hated that aspect of me terrified I'd hurt someone. But as an adult it's drastically changed! As the trust in myself increases, I realise how much people crave for that honesty and perspective. I always tell them to do a free back and forth...and the depth of conversations, respect and understanding is beautiful ❤️.

Also about my traumas. It's allowed me to develop deep deep empathy for others (especially women) which wouldn't have happened otherwise. I genuinely believe I wouldn't have been the person I am today without any of the incidents. And I love myself today. So how could I not love my past too?

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Lisa Bolin 🌸's avatar

It’s interesting that this has appeared because I have a challenge at the moment that I said to my husband “what am I meant to learn from this?” I guess in a way it’s being able to see it for potential to grow and learn rather than as some kind of punishment. I’m not quite sure I can be grateful for it yet, but I’m not resentful. I’m giving myself time and grace to reflect on how I might respond and the steps I can take to move forward with expansion.

Interesting. Thank you!

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